Greed and Charity
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I had the distinct honor of preaching last night at a Good Friday service for
Norman Bible Church down in Norman Oklahoma. That church is pastored by some
of the pastors. He's like, "I got away. Run for dear life." That's okay, we're a family
fellowship. I also scream and run randomly at places. I don't understand
why you can't do that as an adult. Like kids get away with it, but as an adult
they're like, "That guy's going crazy." So I had the honor of preaching there last
night and this is one of those weird years. It's one of those cycle of years
where the church's liturgical calendar, and there's multiple different
liturgical calendars, but the church's liturgical calendar in Christianity
does not align with the liturgical calendar of Judaism, Messianic Judaism,
Messianic Israel, Messianic Hebrew roots. We've got more names than we know what
to do with, but this is a year where there's an additional month. And so
rather than Easter and Good Friday falling at the same time of Pesach and
first fruits, it's actually a month apart from each other. And so that actually
works out great for Brent, who gets to do a lot of Passover Seders for various
different churches around the Oklahoma City area. You get to spread it out more
than just a concentrated week to two, and then also for our family to be able to
speak at some of these other congregations that we have a
relationship with. It also makes it a little bit easier to fit those in when
you have a month later that you actually come and gather for ours. Speaking of
gathering for ours, on April 12th we will be here in this room for the
Oklahoma City Passover. We do four cups of the Passover. I know there is
multiple different traditional elements of Judaism and what is a part of
those Passover Seders, but our Passover Seder for HFF has always been one of the
greatest outreaches we've had to the Christian church, showing the beauty of
Yeshua in the Passover through the four cups. And so we'll be here once again
on Friday night, April 12th. That is sold out. So if anybody is interested in
coming and helping be a part of that, we always need servers. Farrah needs help
with servers and cleanup and all the work that goes into hosting 13 tables
full of individuals to learn about Jesus and the Passover Seder. So get with Farrah,
get with Tim, get with any of the team leads. Vicki, who is in the lobby
with the coda. You saw her at the door when you came in today. Get with them if
you'd like to help kind of serve the people who will be here. We're in the
midst of one of the happiest series we've ever done at HFF on the seven
deadly sins called the Taboo Series. In preparation for Pesach, in preparation
for firstfruits, in preparation for that time, we always talk about looking
under the couch cushions. We always, with the kids, we have some fun
and it's like, "Hey, can you find the leaven?" And inevitably, no, you don't find
the leaven. Inevitably, halfway through unleavened bread, you find some piece
under Brent's driver's seat. Not that I was looking, but somebody, the Holy Spirit
told me, and I went and it was there. Or you'll find it in your kid's cup holder.
Or you'll, my kids, Jude, you'll find it hidden under his mattress where he
stuffs all the things that he's not supposed to eat and acts like mom and
dad don't know it's there. We have a black lab. He tells us where all of the
leaven is. I know sometimes you see your dog and it's like, "Oh, do we have
rodents in the house?" It's like, "No, Jude's hiding food again." So yeah, you got told
on. Straight told on in church, man. It's hard to be a pastor's kid. This week,
we're going to be on the topic of greed. Quite honestly, when I spent a
couple of months while Brent was going through the Gospel of the book of
Hebrews, and I was looking at reading through the deadly sins and the virtues
that help us combat those deadly sins, I had a whole idea of how I was going to
go about this sermon series, what kind of my goal was, and how they would
kind of play off each other. You know, they're kind of like building blocks
where one sin could potentially lead to the other, to the other. I spent
months in study, reading, preparation, and then true to God fashion, he basically
says, "Well, great. Good for you. That's not what I want you to teach on. Good.
Great. Good for you. That's not how this series is going to go." So this week
on greed, I had this concept that greed was a problem, but lust and
pride are way bigger, and greed isn't that big of an issue. Well, as I
was studying this week, I came to the realization that the love of money and
what money can help you obtain, what it can help you gather, what it can help you
buy, is actually more rampant according to data in our culture than pornography.
So we talked about lust, and we talked about what we see with our eyes, and the
unhealthy sexual desire. Remember, sexual desire was given for husbands and
wives. It was given to be good. However, lust is when we take it too far, when we
desire something that the Lord doesn't tell us to desire. However, the love of
money and what it can help you obtain, especially in the United States of
America, is actually more rampant than pornography. Money in and of itself isn't
bad. Money in and of itself is not greed. It's when the love and pursuit of money
becomes your first and primary goal or target. Greed is an intense and prideful
lust for something, especially money, power, or food, that has become gluttonous.
It was interesting when I started looking at Webster's Dictionary. Now,
that's not what Webster's Dictionary says. They actually use different words
in there, and when I started looking at the thesaurus, I was like, "Wow,
interesting how pride and lust fit right into those words, and then gluttony
fits into this word." So greed is actually an intense and prideful lust for
something, especially money and power or food, that has become gluttonous. It's a
selfish pursuit of something that we think, by overindulging ourselves,
whether it's our ego or our pride, our security, that it will somehow give us
hope. It will somehow give us the feeling of being filled up and secure in this
world. It replaces the fact that the only thing that can give you security in this
world is Jesus. It replaces the fact that the only thing that can actually give
you hope in this world is Jesus. I gave the testimony a week or so ago about my
father, who was a businessman who owned multiple companies, had worked in finance,
was worth millions of dollars. I think at one time it was 20 to 23 million dollars
in my childhood, and in a matter of moments, when the housing market crashed
under George W. Bush and the economy went in the tank real, real quick, he lost
everything. He lost all the houses. He lost all the cars. He had this Volvo XC90
Ocean Rally Blue. I think there was maybe 500 in existence. That was back when they
allowed you to make gas cars, nice cars. It was this beautiful car, and he had
given it to my wife because he had said, "No daughter of mine is going to drive
around with a granddaughter in one of those little pickup trucks." So he
gave her this beautiful car. However, we hadn't transferred the title, and so in a
moment, literally everything was gone, even the inheritance that he had said he
was going to leave for us. Now, ironically, we had already had a
conversation, April and I, and we had said, "Well, it doesn't matter if this
inheritance, if this money, if this wealth is able to be passed down to us. We're not
going to touch it. We're going to take it, and we're going to build it as an
inheritance for our children. We don't need it. We're happy with what we have."
And then, I don't know if it was a year or two later, all of a sudden, it didn't
matter what we were going to do with it or not do with it, because it didn't
matter what he was going to do with it or not do with it, because poof, it was gone
in an instant. And it wasn't necessarily that there was this selfish pursuit. I
never knew my dad to really love money. It just was something he was very good
at. However, I have witnessed, since he lost all of the money, this overwhelming
pursuit of the things of the Lord. It's not an overwhelming pursuit of finances
or power or these things. It's an overwhelming pursuit of the Lord. And
I've heard my father speak more about Jesus and sermons and topics in the last
couple of years of my life than I did probably in the first 35 years of my
life. Wealth isn't bad. Having things isn't bad. But when wealth in the pursuit
of assets becomes your primary goal, you are operating out of greed and
selfishness. Greed is just another way. It's funny, we say the same sentence in
the opening of every sermon, and it just fits. Greed is just another way that the
"Yetzirah," what the Jewish say, call the "Yetzirah," the evil appetite, competes
with inside you for what God would have you do and what your flesh would have
you desire. Greed is underneath all pride, lust, and gluttony. So let me ask you,
church, how much money is enough? What's the dollar value? Is it $75,000 a year? Is
it a million dollars in your savings? Shepherd, you know what the value is. How
much money is enough, buddy? $400? Oh man. Zero. $400. That will get you something at
McDonald's nowadays. Buy dynamics. Build back better. Greed is underneath all
pride, lust, and gluttony. How much power is enough? You know, I've testified over
the last year and a half that I spent 17 years not only founding international
messianic ministries, but then also working in the executive space of other
international messianic ministries, and yet it felt like we had the most
influence ever internationally, and I can't speak of one bit of fruit
that came out of it. I'm sure there is, and I'm sure that the Lord, there's
stuff that he allowed us to do in that time. I just can't, off the top
of my head, I can't think about like one individual who I could say their lives
were radically transformed, and then all of a sudden the Lord gives us an Exodus
moment. He gives us probably one of the greatest gifts ever, which doesn't make
any sense because all of a sudden he takes your income away, and he
takes your power away, and he releases you from operating in that space, and yet
now we see people get healed, we see miracles, we see signs, we see wonders, we
see things restored. So how much power is enough power? I don't know. What is the
bar, and what is your baseline? Everybody has one. Everybody has some bar or
baseline that they consider to be, if we're in this space, we're comfortable.
Whether it's your finances, or it's your assets, or it's how much
influence you have, we all have something, some metric by which this is how we
operate. So church, let me let you in on a little secret. Whatever that bar is,
whatever that metric is, if you cannot fast from it, you are a slave to it. If
you cannot abstain from it, it owns you. I want to say that again. If you can't
fast from it, you are enslaved to it. If you cannot abstain from it, it owns you.
Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you for this day. We thank you for the
opportunity to come together on the Sabbath to praise you, to worship you.
Lord, as thousands and millions of Christians all over the world celebrate
your death, burial, and resurrection this week, Lord, we just
praise you for all that you have done, all that you are, and all that you will
be, Lord. We praise you for the constant reminder that you alone walk through the
covenant of the pieces and keep your promises, even when we don't deserve for
those promises to be kept. Lord, today as we spend some time in your Word, I pray
that I would not have eloquent speech, that there wouldn't be some
knowledge that I would impart on the people, but Lord, that you would
impart whatever your Spirit wants to do through me, that you would prick the
hearts, Lord, of your people. You would charge them to become more like you in
everything. And so, Lord, we commend this time to you. In the name of Yeshua, amen.
Amen. Everything that you see around you is an expression of God's generous love.
God invites humans into the world to be his guest, a world, especially in America,
that operates in abundance, a world that operates in many, many blessings. You know,
we not only have the ability to go out to eat, but we have the ability to
literally have the arguments and spousal issues on whether it is tacos tonight or
whether it is pizza. We are a blessed people. There is an overabundance of what
we have at our fingertips as Americans. Yet, I want tacos too. Thank you. Yes.
Eli, praise God. Taco Tuesday. Get it while you can, because unleavened
bread is basically the feast of tacos. He charges us as co-heirs with him in this
kingdom. Whether the kingdom is Uganda, we've seen that outside. Uganda is a
mission field for Westmore Community Church, or it's here in America. He
charges us to be co-heirs of the creation that's around us. We're to work
the grounds, keep the ground ready, scattered seeds, and spread his image
daily all over creation. And in doing so, we provide a witness and a testimony
through our actions and what people hear from us that our faith is in him to
provide, our faith is in him to give us what we will need, our faith is in him to
sustain us and to keep us from dying. Yet, this isn't really what we normally see.
We see people acting in what is known as a world of scarcity. It's a scarcity
mindset. There's a struggle. There's a fear that there's not enough, that
somehow we will miss out, that if somehow God blesses your family, he doesn't have
the means and the methods to bless another family equally. There's a fear
that if God is going to give me this gift, this healing, this miracle,
this abundance, this whatever, that somehow God is not going to do it for
other people. Somehow God has a limit. Somehow God is finite like we view the
world. That God has a limit to his capabilities. And it's not just material
capabilities. It's if he heals me, he doesn't have the ability to heal
somebody else. Like he only has like a one heal a day card. Like there's
a cap on the limit. It's, well we can only offer, it's like a manager of a
discount store, it's like, well I can only offer one discount today and the cap is
20%. This is how we approach God. We approach him from a perspective that
says somehow he's got a limit because we have a limit. There is no limit to God.
God creates all things and through him are all things. And so we we have to
change our mindset to say that just because God is pouring out
something to someone in some place doesn't mean that he cannot do it in
another place. But we also shouldn't approach God as if he is some sort of
welfare system. God I saw you blessed trolling. Here, can I get my cup today?
Can I get my portion? His Word tells us he will already give us our portion. His
Word tells us he will already protect you. He will already feed you. He says
that the birds don't worry. Why are you? Are you telling me that a sparrow is
smarter than you? I'm looking around the room. There's some pretty intellectual
looking people here. Not me, but you. Why do the sparrows not worry? Why do the
Robins not worry? But yet we have a fear that somehow God can't show up. That
somehow God can't do. We come up with theologies and we say, "Well the
gifts of the Holy Spirit and the offices of the Holy Spirit and the
miracles and the wonders and the signs and the manifestations of the Holy
Spirit that somehow these were just for the first century apprentices of Jesus."
And yet all around us if we're looking, there's testimony over testimony over
testimony of how God provides in miraculous ways. But sometimes we miss
the most basic of miracles. Like the fact that you woke up this morning. Like the
fact that you had gas in your car or electric in your car. Used to be able to
just say one. Now I got to say both. Or the fact that that God allowed you to
have a roof over your head. Even if you're sleeping in your car, God allowed
you to have a roof over your head. Or the fact that God allowed you to have
clothing. I'm personally grateful for that miracle. It would have been very
awkward at Saturday Church if he had not provided you with the miracle of
clothing. As a whole we miss the most basic things that we take for granted
because we say, "Well my shoes aren't nice enough. Michael has way cooler
shoes on this morning. God why do I have these and not those?" Doesn't matter our
age. Sometimes we run around like spoiled toddlers and we're saying, "Mommy he took
my car. I want my car. Mommy why does he get to have that and I don't? Brother had
a lollipop. I didn't." That it's the it's the same thing. Only we're talking about
cars or we're talking about jobs or we're talking about influence or we're
talking about whatever the topic might be. But it's the same thing. Replace
lollipop or starburst with they have a managerial position or they make more
money or they are better looking or they drive a nicer car or they have more food
or whatever it is. It's the same concept. We're more worried about how God is
blessing somebody else than to be thankful for the moment that God has
already blessed us. We were born to be creators and cultivators and yet the
world has turned us into consumers. Debt and poverty run rampant and yet our
culture as a whole has more, literally more, than any other in the world. We have
more than any other in the world. But even we've turned the church into a
product and we get mad at the preachers and we get mad at the worship leaders
and we say, "How dare you? This is the house of the Lord. Hellermans, how dare
you stand up here and bring that forth that way?" The Bible says this, "Well
people bring forth what what you constantly complain about and what you
want." I want the best worship. I want the best sounding. I want the best looking. I
want the most eloquent of words. Church, this is not what this church does. Church,
what this church does is we allow the Holy Spirit to do what the Holy Spirit
does because the Holy Spirit is God and I am not and Brent is not and Michael is
not and the Hellermans are not. And so we come and we bring all the inadequacies
that we have and we just lay our pennies at the feet of the Lord and we say, "What
can you do with it?" Because your Word says you took a couple of fish and a couple
of loaves and you fed thousands. So if I come with two cents, that's literally all
I have is two cents and I bring it to you. What can you do with it Lord? I know
you can do more than I can do with it. The Hellermans and the worship team, they
come and they say, "Hey look, we'll come and we'll bring you the best we have Lord.
We're gonna just give it all to you so that you can join with the angels and
the elders in the throne room with us singing how awesome you are." It's funny
how you hear things and you're like, "Well that was way more eloquent and that
sounded way better than it actually was." That's not us. That's the Lord. Because
when we come and we try to consume, that's all we're here for is just to
consume. We set a standard. And guys, I don't want you to dislike me, but I would
much rather you dislike me and the Lord be pleased with the message that's
brought or the worship that's brought, than to create a house of consumers who
just come for a product, just come for an experience. God is not a product. The
kingdom of God is not a product. It is everything. And it is the most important
thing around us. Our prideful lust for more and more and more has made us
ravenous, impatient, materialistic, and gluttonous. We're more worried about what
features are on the new iPhone. Can we go back to the little Motorola thing that
was like this? Somebody said a Razr? Yeah. Yeah. We got some Android people in
the house. Oh, okay. Well, guess what? Pride is also a sin. So check out my superior
camera. Vanity is also a sin. I'm just saying. I know we're on like, I'm on like an
iPhone 13. I'm also being gluttonous. I should have had the original iPhone, but
it is what it is. I'd love to be a fly on the wall and watch my children negotiate
and deliberate on how they're not going to get what they called "screwed out of
the last donut." I have five children. There's 12 donuts. By the time April and I
have, that's seven donuts that are gone. And the amount of negotiating and
manipulation to make sure that they get their fair share of glazed or chocolate
donuts is unheard of. If Congress could negotiate like that,
Katie, bar the door. But this is things we do in our own mind, in our own
relationship with the Lord, and then also with others. We negotiate to make sure we
get our fair share. Our society has become successful in creating this
scarcity mindset that makes us believe that somehow the provision of God is not
enough for every single one of us. First Timothy 610 says, "For the love of money
is the root of all kinds of evil. It is through this craving that some have
wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs." Money itself
is not the root of all evil, but the love of money is. And when you chase after
money, when that's the goal is to chase after money, it comes with all kinds of
headaches, all kinds of wrestling, all kinds of issues. If it didn't, then how
come you wouldn't have all these billionaires and millionaires talking
about how amazing their life is? Most of them are addicted to lustful sexual
desires. They're involved in drugs and alcohol abuse. They're manipulative.
They're greedy. There's all these other things that come with it. Money isn't the
root of all evil, but the love of money is. Luke 12 15 says, "And he said to them,
'Take care and be on guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not
consist in the abundance of his possessions.'" I made a practice in my
home, and some people think that we're crazy, and we are, but not for this
reason. It's for many other reasons. But I make a practice in my home that anytime
my children get something, they have to give something. I personally just call it
purging, but that's...they're not on board with purging. So it's
a you get, you give type of thing. But every year come springtime, after the
lull of the winter, and kind of like you've gathered some weight, you've
gathered, you know, all these things, then we go through our house and we say, "If
you haven't touched it, we're getting rid of it." Now it coincides normally with our
youth garage sale, so it always goes to a great opportunity for the kids to go to
youth camp, but if you get something, you have to give away something. Because at no
point in time do I want my children to ever grow up in an atmosphere where
all their stuff becomes what they want to possess and what they want to hold on
to. Because the truth is, is that nothing lasts forever in this world. Nothing lasts
forever. So when my daughter gets a used keyboard, something needs to go. When my
daughter comes home with a whole bunch of books, something needs to go. And she'll
say, "But dad, this is a limited edition." And I say, "Oh, somebody's gonna be
blessed, because it's going." And we do this consistently. If something comes in,
something has to go out. If somebody's gonna give to you, whether it's your
grandparents or it's somebody from the church is giving you a gift, or you
worked and got it yourself, then bless somebody with something else. And at the
same point in time, we don't have storage units and all these other things all
over the place. There's multiple wins for that. Luke tells us that the status
symbols of this world actually don't produce life. The car you drive doesn't
produce life. The house you live in does not produce life. The clothes you wear. I
wear Gucci. Good for you. Like, it doesn't produce life. The things that are here
don't produce life. And so, when we look to them as a temporary hit or a
temporary high to say, "Man, it felt really, really good to get this." But it
doesn't last long. This is why we see the designer trends over and over and over
again. Subway tile is out and black leather tile is in. Like, in three
months, subway tile is back. And Home Depot is flipping the store with rugs. And
Amazon is constantly telling you, "You looked at this dress. Well, this is the
new dress that's in." Or, "You bought shoes. Here's the new shoe that's in." And it's
constantly keeping you enslaved to a cycle that does not give you worth or
value. But yet, we continue to do it. There's a song that was played as a
walk-up song because that's what youth baseball's turned into, is
we have walk-up songs now. You know, it used to be just the Major League
Baseball players would have, you know, songs or "Charge." Now, we've got like eight-year-olds
in youth baseball who can, like, pick out a walk-up song. And so, I heard
this song and I don't know it. And please don't go look it up because I'm guessing
just like all youth baseball songs, it's not appropriate. But the whole
phrase of the song is, "I look good today. I look good today." And they, like, strutting
their stuff at eight years old up at rec ball, like, "I'm about to hit a pitch, a
ground ball to the pitcher." But it's like, "I look good today." This is our society.
Everything around us, the materialistic atmosphere, is meant to fill us up and
make us feel good about ourselves. And God is saying that keep doing it. The
definition of insanity is keep doing the same thing over and over and over again
and expecting a different result. What you're looking for, the value we're
attempting to find, cannot be found in anything that's in this world. It can
only be found in Jesus. You cannot be co-heirs to cultivate this world if you
can't find Jesus. Because who are you co-heiring with? Ikea? McDonald's? Bezos?
Warren Buffett? Those are all temporal things. The materialistic elements of
what's happening keeps you in a rat race that will never fill the void you feel.
Now, greed manifests itself in multiple different ways. This is
personally one of my favorite. I'm actually really against this one.
Hoarding. This element of greed plays on a person's fear and leads them to
believe that they cannot be generous to others because you'll need whatever it
is. That dad or grandfather that's like, "I'm gonna keep this one washer
from 1972 because at some point in time in some element of this family
dynamic, somewhere down that family tree, that one washer is going to save the day."
And that one washer turns into 40 washers, turns into 50 washers, and then
when they pass away, their grandson gets to go and sort through all of them. If
you have a nice grandson, if you have me, I just throw him away. That's where I get
a yes? And throwing away the washers?
They're afraid. There's a fear that somehow they'll need this and they can't
part from it. I understand that. My grandmother operated in that space. My
mother semi operates in that space. She's doing really, really well. Sorry, Deb. I'm
not outing you, but you're doing well. I'm proud of you. You know, doing great.
It's awesome. Kudos to you. We practice in our family the purge method. It comes
in, something goes out. We get blessed, we bless somebody else. And it's a consistent
cycle of recognizing the fact that whatever we got, even if we bought it
with our own money, was a gift from God. And so then we can then give a gift to
somebody else. And so we're constantly looking, if it's a new light fixture
we're put up, we're constantly looking on how we can take that light fixture and
bless somebody else. We're not throwing it in the attic. We're not getting a
storage unit. We're finding a way to take something of value, whatever the value is,
and get it to somebody who finds value in that, who can use that. Hoarding will
never make you happy. In fact, it turns out to be basically a waste of even the
materialistic stuff. You know, you see those shows where people had one of the
most beautiful trucks or cars and they could not get rid of it because they
loved it so much. And then their children come after they pass or whatever and
there's weeds growing up through it and the engine block is completely shot and
nobody ever got to find value in that vehicle. Number two, blowing through
money. Not just rich people blow through money. You know, that's one of
those things where it's like, well the rich will spend, spend, spend.
Unfortunately, most people overspend. I make $50,000 a year. I spend $55,000 a
year. I have $5,000 in credit card debt. But I needed it, Chris. You don't
understand, I needed it. Well, last night I needed coffee to go preach, but I
didn't need to stop at Starbucks. I chose to stop at Starbucks. I chose to get a
venti black coffee at 325 or whatever it was, when I could have just gotten a cup
of coffee at home for roughly 50 cents. I could have also stopped it on cue and I
could have also gotten a coffee for like 75 cents. I could have made other choices,
but I chose to do this. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not sitting here beating you up
and saying like, well you can't choose to indulge in things from time to time or
do nice things. Of course you can't. But we live in a culture where that is
the normal. I have a second job. I can't make ends meet. But every morning on the
way to your first job, you spend $5 on a latte. Why? Oh, because it's a status
symbol for the world to have that little fish-like woman on your cup. It's a
status symbol to have a Stanley or a Yeti or a name-brand. You guys just got
punked by a marketing team. And the only difference is Ashton Kutcher is not
gonna jump out and tell you you got punked. They're just gonna keep selling to
you. And you'll keep doing and you'll keep doing and you'll keep doing and
you'll keep doing and you'll keep doing it. Why? Because I also do it. I find
myself wrestling with it all the time. We all do. Blowing through money, my wife
and I, in the early years of our marriage, we made somewhere around six figures. We
had no children. She was a manager of an apartment community. So we got to live in
whatever apartment on the complex we wanted. Not only did we get to live in
whatever one that we wanted, we got to upgrade it with the new laminate and the
new carpet and we got to paint it before we moved in. Like we got the best of the
best. We have nothing to show from those years. We live for free. In a $1,300-
$1,400 apartment, yes you used to be able to get two bedroom apartments for that
amount of money. We have nothing to show from because we were young and we felt
like there was this status. We got to do this. We got to do this.
We got to do this. We got to do this. We got to do this. And no money. I don't
even think, like I think we gifted you a couch at one point in time, but
that couch was like gone. Like there's not even a couch. Like there's not even a
material possession I think that we still exist that exists at this point.
Even our mattress is gone. Like we've upgraded everything at some point in
time and so like we have nothing to show from even a time of great blessing
financially in our life. Because our goals and what we were trying to
accomplish were to feel good, to fit in, to have status. And we were in our early
20s. Nobody really cared except for us. And we talk about all the time how we
would go back and do it differently now in our 40s and what it would have looked
like if we would have done it then. You know a lot of people in this
congregation have worked with April and I on trying to get through, get out of
debt and do these things and the debt snowball and all these things. Like yes I
love Dave Ramsey but also I we don't use Dave Ramsey per se. And so we want you to
get out of debt and we want you to not have these burdens not only because
Jesus says that you're not to have them, but because we want you to see this
spiritual element that's there that you're supposed to walk in freedom. And
freedom is not only not being enslaved to a credit card payment every single
month, but it's also to not be enslaved to the mentality that you must use your
credit card in order to be liked or loved or seen. I don't like you or love
you or talk to you because you make money or don't make money. I like you, I
love you and talk to you because Jesus created you the same way that Jesus
created me. And in that you have value. That alone you have value. Ecclesiastes 5
10, "He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves
wealth with his income. This is also vanity." Matthew 6 24, "No one can serve
two masters for either he will hate the one and love the other or he will be
devoted one and despise the other." You cannot serve God and money. Church, this
is a wake-up call for the church too. If your church is more concerned about how
much money is coming in in the tithe, it's the same thing. Either God provides
or he doesn't. Either his word is true or it isn't. Either God will pay your
mortgage or he won't. Now we're not going to get into laziness today. It's going to
come up in another teaching. I'm going to draw this out for seven weeks. You're
welcome. We're about to go to kids class every week, Eli. I got it. Message
received. I'm wrapping up. Comparison. Hey, we're a family church. Sometimes you need
to be humbled. Sometimes you need to be humbled and sometimes it's out of the
mouth of babes where he's like, "Can you wrap it up already?"
Yeah, it's not even table fellowship. Mom's got to cook food when we get home.
Like, checking that Apple watch over there. You have a lot. Greed.
Don't get into greed. Comparison. We're in competition with everybody. Somebody in
this room today walked into the church and was like, "They're wearing that. Hmm.
Somebody must have got a raise. Hmm." We're in comparison. I did this to my wife the
other day. She's got this nice-looking Stanley. Now, we didn't pay for it. She got
it for her birthday. But it's got that cool retro like, you know, those stripes
that they had on like the old Dodge Chargers. It's like the orange and all
that. She's got this cool Stanley. I'm looking on Amazon. I'm like, "Why don't I
see any cool Stanleys?" Like, "Where's the Stanleys?" And we're in competition with
each other to have a cooler Stanley. I know you love it. And I'm confessing my
sins under the congregation. We're in a competitive play... competitive world. I've
watched individuals walk in and they're like, "Man, did you see that Mazusa on their
door? Where'd you get that? That is so cool. It's way much... it's way nicer than my
Mazusa." Why are we in comparison on Mazusas and Talits and Kippas and clothes?
Or, you know, it's literally a little box on your door that has the commandments
in it. Like, where does it say on the doorpost of your house inside a
crystal-glass container, "You should put thy commandments." It doesn't. My silverware
is nicer than yours. Oh, my haircut is nicer than yours. This facility is nicer
than yours. We're competing against assets and concepts all the time. Can
somebody show me the Bible verse where it says that's okay? Can somebody show me
the Bible verse that says that's important? We're not to be in competition
with one another. We're to work cooperatively with one another to bring
the kingdom of God here. We're not to compete against others' gifts. If you
have the gift of the discerning of spirits, and I do not, I'm not supposed to
be like, "Hmm, I've been studying on the gifts of discerning spirits and I think
maybe you got a hole in your theology there." We're not to be
competing with each other for our spiritual gifts or our financial desires
or what we have or we don't have. We're actually supposed to help each other and
lift each other up by carrying each other's burdens so that we don't walk
around with the weight, the weight of, "What does the culture think about me?" The
weight of, "Is my house nice enough?" The weight of, "Do I have the right spiritual
gifts?" God says that you can't tell the hand that you don't need the eye or the
eye that you don't need the foot. So why are we standing around saying, "Well, I
need more of the hands." Or, "Why did God bless them to be an eye?" Everybody looks
at the eye. Why do I got to be the kneecap? But this is our culture. This is
the comparison. We're comparing all the time. And I use the word comparing, but
the truth is we're just judgmental. We're just judgmental. We're judging everybody
at every point in time and we still don't feel good about ourselves. We're
loving others the way we actually love ourselves and we're projecting onto them
our own hurt. Entitlement. Alright, boomer generation. This is not exclusive to the
Millennials. I just got to make sure you understand that because I've been on
social media for a long time and there's a lot of people in the boomer
generation who are constantly talking about the entitlement of Millennials. The
truth is, is Americans in general are entitled. We're just entitled. Now it does
get worse because we see throughout the Bible, especially with Israel, there's
there's cycles that happen. There's a generation that loves God and is
faithful to God and slowly but surely there's generations that fall away, fall
away, fall away, fall away, fall away. God wakes them up and they're like, "I love
you Lord. Oh, your mercy is never-ending." And then they're like, "I like you Lord.
Sometimes your mercies are for me." It's like, "Who is the Lord? I am fine with
myself." Something happens and it cycles back over. This is natural. It's
a biblical cycle. It's what happens. It happened to the Hebrew people. It
happened to the Israelite people. It's over and over and over again. But you
don't deserve anything. You don't deserve anything. Let's just go ahead and squash
the entitlement right now. You didn't deserve that Jesus took on flesh to take
on the beating and the mocking and the crucified nature of what happened to Him.
You deserve that. I deserve that. You don't deserve the car you have.
God blessed you with it. You say, "Well, I worked hard for it." Yeah, guess what? God
could have made sure you couldn't walk. God could have made sure you couldn't
talk. God could have made sure that you didn't have the mental fortitude to be
able to do the job. God blessed you with all of those things. So it's not that you
did anything. God allowed you and He gave you the gift to do it because through
Him is everything. This is where pride comes in. I did that. No, you did not. God
did that and He allowed you to participate in it. We have to change our
mentality. Worship team, you can come back. Greed is a sin of security and
self-preservation. There's some number, there's some metric, there's some element
of if we can obtain this, if we have this, we're safe. The Bible says that Jesus is
coming back to save us. So in Him we'll be saved, not in how much food you can
prep, not in how many weapons you can own. People acting like they're gonna take up
arms against the government. They're just gonna fly little planes over top of you.
Like this is not the Civil War. But we're like, "I have enough ammo to last me for
seven years. I have enough food to last me for seven years." And then a
tornado comes and wipes out your house. Yeah, driving down the corner of Norman
on 36th Avenue, there are a whole lot of people begging for food, let alone go
up here to 240. Begging for food. You got enough food to last seven years and
they're just looking for, they're looking for anything. They will eat your
leftovers. They will eat what you throw away.
You have to counteract the greed of consumerism with the charity of being
charitable to those who are less fortunate, who have less things. The
opportunity is around you all day long. Now this doesn't mean that you just
squander your money and you squander your food and you squander your
atmosphere and you squander everything. No, you're investing into the kingdom.
Well Chris, the gentleman's just gonna go buy alcohol. That's between him and God.
But he said to clothe them, he said to feed them. And we have seven years worth
of supply of food. We have a freezer full of meat. God is the only one who can
bring about your preservation. Ephesians 5.5, "For you may be sure of this, that
everyone who is sexually immoral or impure or who is covetous has no
inheritance in the kingdom of God."
Fatherhood sets the stage for two things. The passing on of life and the passing on
of inheritance. Parents in this room, you've been entrusted by God to pass on
life to your children, to pass on an inheritance. That's not just financial.
That's the one we worry about the most. But the greatest inheritance you can
pass on to your children is how to walk like Christ. Daily. Not annually. Well I
showed up at Passover. Oh I showed up at I showed up at Tabernacles. Daily model
the integrity and the character of Christ. Are you sowing for personal gain?
Are you sowing for God's glory and righteousness? Or are you hoarding away
not only your finances but the gifts that the Holy Spirit has given you? The
harvest is plenty. The laborers are few.
To combat greed we have to understand that God has given you something that he
intends for you to sow into somebody else. The whole kingdom is about
discipleship. So when we come into a church we're like, "Well hey let's let's
let's get a discipleship program." And I'm like, "Hey why don't we become
discipleship people? Hey let's have a let's have an outreach discipleship plan."
And I'm like, "Why don't we just live an outreach discipleship life?" Well the
church should do this. Well no we all should do this. When we counter greed
with charity and being charitable to other people what we do is we lower our
emphasis of our own pride and our own lust and we realize that there's people
out there who literally have nothing like what we have. We're not talking
about abundance. We're not talking about six hundred thousand plus dollar houses.
We're not talking about Lamborghinis and a cop car. We're not talking about any of
that type of stuff. We're talking about his basic human needs like having a
shirt or some sandals. And this isn't just Uganda. This isn't just in Bosnia.
This isn't just some third world country. No it's in the west side of Norman. West
side is the best side I've been told. It's been told. It's an opinion. It's not in the
scripture. But on the west side of Norman you have homeless people all over the
place. So if it's the best side of Norman and yet there's homeless people, there's
people in our own backyard who need to eat. There's people in our own backyard
who need to be clothed. There's people in our own backyard who actually would love
to sit down and talk to you. To be seen, heard, and loved. We come into church and
we're like oh man we don't get seen, heard, and loved enough and yet we drive
by those people every single day. And don't get me wrong I'm not preaching at
you. I'm preaching with you because we all have these problems. I drive by them
too from time to time and as soon as I drive by it's like Lord I knew I should
have done it. I knew you should have done it and I go back and they're not
there. And I don't say to Yahweh I'm not like hey awesome thank you for you
know making me feel better. It's like no I missed the opportunity and the Lord
wasn't going to give it back to me because you want a direct obedience just
like I want direct obedience for my children. So next time when when you go
to get coffee, let's take baby steps, just baby steps. When you go get coffee think
about your friend who's struggling and go take them coffee and sit five ten
minutes with them. Sometimes we think well we're too busy we got to sit down
we got to have a play date we got to do all these things. No you know how nice it
is just to open your door and have a gift from somebody? Anything. Chicken soup.
Whatever it is. You go and you sit and you make homemade pizza for people and
you just drop it off as a gift. Start with baby steps. Don't just immediately
say well I've never given to the homeless I've never never been charitable
I've never done these things and so today I'm gonna just change my life and
I'm gonna go all in. It's an unrealistic goal and you probably will not do it
just realistically. But start with little things this week. How do you become more
charitable to the kingdom of God and I'm not talking about your money. Church we
don't pass the bucket here. I'm not interested in that. You give to the Lord
what you want to give to the Lord but we have opportunities all day long to sow
into God's kingdom and to let God then sow into what we need. But if you're
sitting there like I'm hoarding what I have then the Lord's like that's fine you
hoard what you need I'm gonna go take care of the ones that you won't take
care of. But I also can't I can't richly bless you because you don't you don't
want to share with anybody. So go go Jonah go Jonah sit on a hilltop and and
Saul woe is me you save people you shouldn't save. Woe is me you bless
somebody who you shouldn't bless. He gets to choose who he blesses. He
shouldn't bless me. I'm no better I'm no greater.
There are thousands and thousands and thousands of people right outside this
door that are driving by every Saturday driving by every Sunday that do not know
Jesus. They don't know the King they don't know the kingdom they don't know
anything they're lost they're in need of hope they're in need of salvation some
need food some need clothing some need a hug some need whatever. What are we doing
to go and be the hands and feet of Messiah? To be charitable in everything
we do? This of all weekends and I know our liturgical calendar is different but
this of all weekends says Jesus literally came and gave everything he
had. And not only did he give everything he had he gave it knowing he was going
to receive the worst wrath possible. Jeremiah 25 says the cup of wrath that
was poured supposed to be poured out for all of us he took upon himself. So not
only did he give it all but he gave it all knowing that he was going to get the
worst repercussions back. Let me ask you a question. What's the worst repercussion
that's going to happen if you buy some raisin canes for a guy on the corner?
You're out 15 bucks max? That's if you feed them right. You're out 15 bucks? How
many here cannot find $15? If you can't find $15 Eli you can 100% find $15.
You were talking about tacos you have taco mile money at home my bro. Because
if you don't have $15 to bless somebody I promise you I will give you $15 to
bless somebody this week. It doesn't cost you anything to take one of your
Tupperware containers to take some chicken soup and to go hand it to
somebody on the corner. Like hey look I'm not comfortable I'm a female and that
gentleman's a male I'm not comfortable in doing that. It costs you nothing to go
reach out your window and hand them soup. It costs you nothing to reach out your
window and hand them a jacket. It costs you nothing as you're going through your
stuff to bless somebody else and to further the kingdom of God. Because when
you start thinking about them more you start erasing this selfish desire that
you have. I need another Ikea couch or Facebook marketplace has this really
good deal on something that I have absolutely no need for but I'm gonna buy
it anyways and I'm gonna figure out how to get it home and I'm gonna rent a U-Haul
and it looks really great in my garage. And then I need a garage sale. But I don't
want to do a garage sale because that's too much work. So you just give it to
Sarah. The harvest is ready but the question is are you gonna go? Are you
gonna go to the world? Are you gonna feed them? Are you gonna clothe them? Are you
gonna lay down even a portion of who you are in your comfortableness the same way
that Christ laid down at all?
We're talking about basic 101. Well I'm gonna I'm gonna reach the lost. You
want to reach the lost? Start reaching out to the lost. Well I want to win
souls for Jesus. Why don't you feed them first and maybe they'll give you the
opportunity to speak to them. Oh wait Jesus modeled that. Jesus modeled by
saying after he called the the Apostles and Matthew he went he started dining
with the tax collectors. He started dining with the sinners. He started
dining with them. He wasn't like hey come to my conference. Hey come to church on
Saturday. He was like hey come let me feed you. We looked last week where he
said that he didn't want people to just follow him because he did the fishes and
loaves and he fed him. So they were following him because their bellies were
full. He wanted them to follow him because their hearts were pure and they
recognized who he was. But there's something to be said there when you read
between the lines of the scripture. If you feed people who are hungry they
will they will they will listen. They will follow.
Preach the gospel. Die and be forgotten as long as Jesus gets the glory. Because
if you're seeking to get the glory, if you're seeking to give the glory to HFF
or to any church, he doesn't share his glory with anybody because there's
nobody else worthy of his glory. Preach the gospel. Die and be forgotten.
That's charity. Preach the gospel. Die and be forgotten. Give Jesus the glory.
Stand and worship with us church.
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