What Did Jesus Teach About Servant Leadership? (Mark 10:35–45 Explained)
In Mark 10:35–45, James and John boldly ask Jesus for positions of honor at His right and left hand, revealing their cultural pursuit of status and their deep misunderstanding of the Kingdom of God. Jesus responds by teaching that true greatness in the Kingdom comes not through power, ambition, or self‑promotion, but through servant leadership, humility, and willingness to “drink the cup” of suffering with Him. While the disciples seek glory, Jesus points them to the cost of discipleship, reminding them that God alone appoints places of honor and that following Christ means embracing sacrifice rather than worldly success. Jesus then anchors His teaching in the ultimate act of service—giving His life as a ransom for many—showing that the path to true greatness is found in self‑denial, sacrificial love, and living for the coming Kingdom of God rather than earthly elevation.
Discussion:
“And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.”
Mark 10:35 (ESV)
Do for us whatever we ask
Remember that in an honor and shame culture honor is everything, it is what you spend your life achieving, The actions of James and John here may seem selfish and strange. Yet in their culture the request would have only been bad if it had not been granted. If granted, they would, as they saw it, been elevated to a place of great honor. Not only this, but they would have elevated the status of their children and everyone after them. Thus, this request should be seen today like someone trying to gain great wealth for their family. Yes, it was selfish, and the other disciples were very upset, but it was understandable.
However, we must also remember the current social ranking. It seems that Peter, James, and John were the leading disciples. Their request was a request to be put into higher status than Peter, and also the other disciples (Collins and Attridge 2007, 495).
There is also a comparison here to the request of the young woman who danced for Herod, who asked him to give her whatever she wished (Collins and Attridge 2007, 495). Perhaps they saw here a chance to request a boon. However, the request is very strange, as Jesus just told them that He was going to suffer and die. Do they see this as the last chance to gain honor before His death? If so, this may have been also insulting to Jesus!
“And he said to them, “What do you want me to do for you?” And they said to him, “Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory.”
Mark 10:36–37 (ESV)
Sit at right and left hand… In your glory
Their request was to sit at the places of power and honor in his “glory,” the “Parousia,” the coming Kingdom, but more likely to His earthly kingdom (Evans 2001, 116). Once again, they show that they do not understand the mission of Jesus and what He had come to do. Not only this, but they are not on mission with Him, since He came to serve but they are seeking to be elevated. Jesus took this time as a chance to instruct them and explain again that He came to suffer.
“Jesus said to them, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, or to be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?”
Mark 10:38 (ESV)
Are you able to drink the cup… Baptized with baptism
James and John think they are asking for greatness, but Jesus explains that what they are asking is actually to suffer. He equates the request to be the greatest with suffering, and compares it to drinking from a cup and being baptized. It seems that here the cup is wrath and suffering, and to drink from it is to drink from God’s wrath (for Jesus) (Edwards 2002, 322–323). In a sense then, the disciples, and indeed, no person, can drink of His cup. This cup is His alone to drink from. However, there is another sense where we do drink from the same cup. As Christians, we are called to share in His suffering.
“that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death,”
Philippians 3:10 (ESV)
To share in someone’s cup was to share in their suffering (Lane 1974, 379-380).And so, to suffer is to share in His cup and drink of that same cup. So it is a yes and no. We do not drink from the wrath of God, but we do suffer. The disciples did not understand this though.
“And they said to him, “We are able.” And Jesus said to them, “The cup that I drink you will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be baptized,”
Mark 10:39 (ESV)
You will drink… you will be baptized
According to Papias of Hierapolis John was martyred with his brother James (I do not believe John the Apostle is the author of Revelation) (Stuhlmacher 2018, 649–650). If this is true, they both eventually drank from the same cup as Jesus, as He said they would. To be a disciple is to share in His suffering (Lane 1974, 381). However, sharing in this suffering does not guarantee positions of greatness.
“but to sit at my right hand or at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared.”
Mark 10:40 (ESV)
Those for whom it has been prepared
Jesus made it clear that He cannot, or will not, grant this wish. The Father has already prepared places of honor, and it is not something to be given away by Jesus (Edwards 2002, 324). We can see that even as King Jesus remained humble and submitted to the Father.
Even more than this, the places of honor are not treated as booty to be given away as boons or gifts. They are gifts already prepared, which means that there are those who are predestined to receive them. It is hard to imagine someone greater than the Disciples, John the Baptist, Moses, Elijah or Abraham, and perhaps two of these are the ones He speaks of.
The point is that we are not to seek self elevation in the Kingdom. The world will give you that if you join their system. The Kingdom of God instead offers suffering, trouble, shame, and at the end, eternal life and utter joy! We don’t live our best life on this earth, instead, we live our life in hope of the Kingdom!
The Disciples when they heard of this conversation were very upset.
“And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. And Jesus called them to him and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all.”
Mark 10:41–44 (ESV)
It shall not be among you
The Disciples were acting like the world around them. Yet Jesus corrected them, they were not to seek greatness or honor. They aren’t to behave as the world around them. Instead, they were instructed to seek to be a servant or slave.
Whoever would be great… must be your servant… Slave of all
The formation of the Kingdom, and indeed, the church, is not to follow that of the world (Evans 2001, 119). Instead we are to be servants and slaves. What a difference, instead of seeking greatness, riches, fame, or honor, we are to seek to be low, humble, obedient, and above all, to serve others! The Kingdom of God is not just a kingdom in opposition, but also a kingdom that is far different than a worldly kingdom.
We see here a kind of status reversal (Malina and Rohrbaugh 2003, 193). Just like the rich young ruler, whom Jesus asked to become poor, the Disciples were to seek to be servants and slaves instead of great and honored men. They weren’t to seek greatness or fame, they were to seek to be lowly and instead make God great! Jesus gives them the reason why they are to behave like this, because He Himself has chosen this way, coming as a servant.
“For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Mark 10:45 (ESV)
Give His life as a ransom
There are those who question the nature of Jesus’ sacrifice and whether it was a sin offering or not. This verse makes it clear that His life was a ransom. This seems to be a reference to Isaiah 53 (Lane 1974, 383–385).
“Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the LORD shall prosper in his hand.”
Isaiah 53:10 (ESV)
Most sacrifices were for the individual, but the sacrifice of Jesus was “for the many,” which is an expression for the righteous community in rabbinic writings and Qumran writings (Lane 1974, 383–385). People often make the mistake of comparing Jesus to the sacrifices outlined in the Torah. However, Jesus was not a torah sacrifice, He was a sacrifice offered by God Himself!
“The next day he saw Jesus coming toward him, and said, “Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!”
John 1:29 (ESV)
He is not the lamb of man, He is the lamb of God! Thus, His sacrifice does not have to match or align with a specific torah sacrifice because this is the only sacrifice that is offered by God Himself.
Life Application and Questions to Consider:
How does all this apply to our life today? We are called to use Jesus act of service and sacrifice as an example for our actions. Thus, those who would be in the Kingdom must become like Jesus, not seeking to be great but instead seeking to serve.
What can we do to serve others in every day life?
Is there an act, ministry, or decision that you feel called to do to serve others?
What of sacrifice? I have previously written about seeking to lay down your life every day, in marriage, in life. It is easy to say, but I see my own failures at this. All too often it is easy to defend myself, to get angry, or to choose selfishness. It at these exact moments that the cross calls to us. It is when we are struggling that Jesus says to us “follow Me and die.”
Connections
Matthew 20:20–28
Outline
James and John ask Jesus to give them places of honor in the Kingdom.
Jesus denies their request and tells them that they must be like servants and slaves.
FAQ for the article
What did Jesus teach about servant leadership in Mark 10:35–45?
Jesus taught that true leadership in the Kingdom of God is not about power, status, or authority, but about serving others. He said that anyone who wants to be great must become a servant, and the greatest must be a servant of all.
Why did James and John ask Jesus for positions of honor?
James and John were influenced by a culture that valued honor and status. They believed Jesus would establish an earthly kingdom and wanted positions of power within it, showing they misunderstood His mission and the nature of His Kingdom.
What does it mean to “drink the cup” Jesus talked about?
To “drink the cup” means to share in suffering. Jesus was referring to His coming suffering and death, and He was teaching that following Him involves sacrifice, hardship, and willingness to endure trials.
Did the disciples understand Jesus’ teaching about greatness?
No, the disciples misunderstood Jesus’ teaching. They were focused on status and recognition, while Jesus was teaching that greatness comes through humility, service, and self-denial.
What does Jesus mean by “the first will be last”?
Jesus is teaching a reversal of worldly values. In God’s Kingdom, those who humble themselves and serve others are considered the greatest, not those who seek power or recognition.
Why does Jesus compare leadership to being a servant or slave?
Jesus contrasts worldly leadership—where rulers dominate others—with Kingdom leadership, where leaders serve. This shows that God’s Kingdom operates on completely different values than the world.
What does it mean that Jesus gave His life as a ransom for many?
Jesus’ death was a sacrificial act to redeem others. A “ransom” refers to a price paid to set someone free, meaning Jesus gave His life to bring salvation and restoration to humanity.
How is Jesus the ultimate example of servant leadership?
Jesus demonstrated servant leadership by humbling Himself, serving others, and ultimately giving His life. He did not seek to be served but came to serve, setting the model for all who follow Him.
What does this passage teach about ambition and success?
This passage teaches that ambition for status, power, and recognition is misplaced in the Kingdom of God. True success is found in humility, obedience, and serving others.
How should Christians apply servant leadership today?
Christians are called to serve others in everyday life—through humility, sacrifice, and putting others before themselves. This includes serving in family, church, work, and community, reflecting the example of Jesus.
References-
Adela Yarbro Collins and Harold W. Attridge, Mark: A Commentary on the Gospel of Mark, Hermeneia—a Critical and Historical Commentary on the Bible (Minneapolis, MN: Fortress Press, 2007), 495.
Ibid
Craig A. Evans, Mark 8:27–16:20, vol. 34B, Word Biblical Commentary (Dallas: Word, Incorporated, 2001), 116.
James R. Edwards, The Gospel according to Mark, The Pillar New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids, MI; Leicester, England: Eerdmans; Apollos, 2002), 322–323.
William L. Lane, The Gospel of Mark, The New International Commentary on the New Testament (Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1974), 379–380.
Peter Stuhlmacher, Biblical Theology of the New Testament, ed. and trans. Daniel P. Bailey and Jostein Ådna (Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2018), 649–650.
William L. Lane, The Gospel of Mark, The New International Commentary on the New Testament (Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1974), 381.
James R. Edwards, The Gospel according to Mark, The Pillar New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids, MI; Leicester, England: Eerdmans; Apollos, 2002), 324.
Craig A. Evans, Mark 8:27–16:20, vol. 34B, Word Biblical Commentary (Dallas: Word, Incorporated, 2001), 119.
Bruce J. Malina and Richard L. Rohrbaugh, Social-Science Commentary on the Synoptic Gospels, Second Edition (Minneapolis, MN: Fortress Press, 2003), 193.
William L. Lane, The Gospel of Mark, The New International Commentary on the New Testament (Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 1974), 383–385.
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